Our professional matchmakers provide an enjoyable alternative to online dating:

  • Personalized matchmaking & dating services
  • Quality matches
  • Guaranteed dates

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I want to start dating!

  • Great! Give us a call, or let us reach you by filling out our introduction form.
  • We get to know you.
  • We match you with IJL clients we think you’ll enjoy spending time with.
  • We plan your date and you start dating right away!
  • After your date, you let us know what you think.
  • We even meet you face-to-face!
  • Your feedback is an important part of our process.

“If someone is going to pay to join IJL, they’re going to be more serious. It’s easy to do online dating; anybody can do it. I wanted somebody who was serious about finding someone and wanted a real long-term relationship. With online dating, you can go back and forth and waste a month with someone and not really get to know them. With It’s Just Lunch, you go meet your match and if you like them, you see them again, and if you don’t, you’re done. It’s Just Lunch – is just a lot of fun!” -–Michael & Desiree Schlitt

“From a man’s perspective….there is a stigma to dating and dating online…it’s work. I’ve got a full time job. It’s Just Lunch is easy. And they made it fun for me! Almost immediately there was a quick chemistry between us and now she is the love of my life.” -–Greg & Jennie Steed

“I was traveling in and out of Seattle a lot for work. At some point I decided it would be a lot easier if I had dates managed for me. Then once I joined It’s Just Lunch – it worked out great…I met Tracey!” -–Kevin & Tracey Hughes


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IJL Dating Facts
  • 17%: The chance of liking a date set up by a friend.

  • 11: The number of single friends the average 27 year old has.

  • Top cuisine choices for a first date: 46% Italian, 19% Steakhouse, 16% Japanese, 11% Mexican, 8% French

  • 110 Million: The number of single adults in the United States.

  • Baseball games: A great place to meet men says 74% of single women.

  • 43% of Singles: Have Googled someone on the internet before their date.

  • Top Conversation Killers: Past relationships—49%, dieting or body image—21%, politics—15% and marriage—15%

  • Wednesday: The best day for a first date according to 41% of singles.

  • 17%: The chance of liking a date set up by a friend.

  • Baseball games: A great place to meet men says 74% of single women.


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